Mary Molloy Solicitor

Family & Childcare Law in Kilkenny

Family law in Ireland covers separation, divorce, the rights of cohabitants, guardianship and access to children, maintenance, pensions, the family home, and childcare proceedings brought by Tusla. We advise clients on each of these areas, with the welfare and best interest of the children at the centre of all matters involving children.

2 Rose Inn St, Kilkenny
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Practical family law advice in Kilkenny

Family law in Ireland sits across a defined body of statutes — including the Family Law (Divorce) Act 1996, the Judicial Separation and Family Law Reform Act 1989, the Guardianship of Infants Act 1964, the Family Home Protection Act 1976, and the Civil Partnership and Certain Rights and Obligations of Cohabitants Act 2010. Most family proceedings are heard in the Circuit Family Court, with childcare proceedings heard in the District Court. We advise clients on each of these areas.

There is more than one route through a family law matter. Some are resolved by agreement between the parties — sometimes through direct negotiation, sometimes through mediation — and made into a consent order by the court. Others require contested proceedings. We advise on which route fits the client's circumstances and act for clients through whichever they choose.

Our work covers the full range of family law matters: judicial separation and divorce, the financial issues that arise from them (the family home, maintenance, and pensions in particular), guardianship and access in respect of children, the rights of cohabiting couples under the 2010 Act, and Tusla childcare proceedings. The legal and procedural rules differ by area; the underlying approach — clarity about the law, careful preparation, and respect for the people involved — does not.

Where children are involved, the welfare of the child is the paramount consideration in any decision the court makes. The Guardianship of Infants Act 1964 sets out the factors the court takes into account, including the child's age, wishes (where they are old enough to express them), and relationships with each parent. We advise on how those statutory factors typically apply in practice.

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Family Law

How family law works in Ireland

Family law in Ireland covers a defined set of areas — separation and divorce, the financial issues that arise from a relationship breakdown, guardianship and access to children, the rights of cohabitants, and childcare proceedings brought by Tusla. Knowing which area applies, what the statute says, and what the procedural route looks like makes the path through a family matter clearer. The article below sets that framework out in plain English.

We understand that family law matters are often difficult and deeply personal. Our role is to identify the issues involved and guide you to the most appropriate legal position, and guide you through this important life transition with clarity, care and support

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A relationship breakdown typically involves a range of interconnected issues — the family home, maintenance, guardianship and access to children, pensions, and other financial assets. In Ireland, these can be resolved by agreement between the parties and made into a consent order by the court, or determined by the court following contested proceedings. Where the matter falls outside the marriage context, the rights of the parties are governed by the Civil Partnership and Certain Rights and Obligations of Cohabitants Act 2010.

Where children are involved, the welfare of the child is the paramount consideration in any decision the court makes — that is the test set by the Guardianship of Infants Act 1964. We advise on the legal framework for guardianship, custody, and access, on how the welfare-of-the-child test is applied in practice, and on the procedural route — by agreement or by application — that the client wishes to take.

Separation, divorce, and financial matters

  1. Judicial separationA judicial separation legally recognises that a couple is living apart and resolves financial and parenting arrangements without ending the marriage. There is no minimum period of separation required. It is an option for couples who do not yet meet the criteria for divorce, or who have religious or personal reasons for remaining married.
  2. DivorceIn Ireland, the grounds for a divorce decree are set by the Family Law (Divorce) Act 1996 as amended. The parties must have lived apart for at least two of the previous three years (reduced from four of the previous five years by the Family Law Act 2019, following the 38th Amendment of the Constitution earlier that year). The court must be satisfied that proper provision has been made for all dependent family members before granting the decree. We advise on what 'proper provision' means in the specific circumstances of the matter.
  3. CohabitationCohabiting couples who qualify as 'qualified cohabitants' under the Civil Partnership and Certain Rights and Obligations of Cohabitants Act 2010 may apply to the court for financial relief following the breakdown of a long-term relationship. The remedies available are more limited than those for married couples — and the qualifying threshold for a 'qualified cohabitant' (length of relationship, dependency, and other factors) is itself a matter of legal assessment.
  4. The family homeThe family home is often the most significant asset in a separation. The Family Home Protection Act 1976 prevents one spouse from disposing of the family home without the written consent of the other. We advise on the available options — sale and division of proceeds, one party buying out the other, or a deferred transfer where children remain in the home — and on the financial and tax implications of each.
  5. MaintenanceEither spouse can apply for maintenance from the other, and either parent can apply for maintenance for a dependent child. Maintenance can be agreed voluntarily or ordered by the court under the Family Law (Maintenance of Spouses and Children) Act 1976. We advise on appropriate levels of maintenance and on the steps available to enforce a maintenance order if payments are not being made.
  6. Pension adjustment ordersPensions are frequently among the most valuable assets in a family law matter and are often underestimated. A pension adjustment order — provided for under the Family Law Act 1995 and the Family Law (Divorce) Act 1996 — can direct that part of one party's pension entitlement be paid to the other on retirement or on the death of the pension holder. We advise on identifying and valuing pension assets and on seeking the appropriate order.

Guardianship, custody, and access

Guardianship, custody, and access are three distinct concepts that are often confused. Guardianship is the right and duty to make decisions about a child's upbringing — it is automatically held by a married couple and by the mother of a child born outside marriage. An unmarried father can acquire guardianship by agreement with the mother (formalised by statutory declaration) or by court order. Custody refers to where a child lives and who has day-to-day care of them. Access refers to the right of the non-custodial parent to spend time with the child.

Where parents cannot agree on these arrangements, the court makes orders based on the welfare of the child — the paramount consideration under the Guardianship of Infants Act 1964. The Act sets out the statutory factors the court takes into account, including the child's age, wishes (where they are old enough to express them), and relationship with each parent. We advise on how those factors apply in the specific circumstances of the matter and on the procedural route to the court.

Childcare proceedings

Childcare proceedings are brought by Tusla, the Child and Family Agency, under the Child Care Act 1991, where Tusla has concerns about the safety or welfare of a child. These are serious proceedings: the orders available include supervision orders, interim care orders, and full care orders, and a care order can result in a child being placed in the care of Tusla. The proceedings are heard in the District Court (with appeals to the Circuit Court), and they have their own procedural rules and short timelines. We act for parents and other parties in childcare proceedings, including at interim hearings.

  1. Initial consultation

    We listen to the situation and explain which areas of family law apply — separation, divorce, guardianship, the family home, pensions, or another area — and what the procedural options are. We give a clear, honest assessment of where the matter stands legally and what the realistic next steps look like.

  2. Negotiation, mediation, or consent order

    Where the parties are willing to engage and there is a basis for agreement, we work towards resolving the financial and parenting issues by negotiation between solicitors or by mediation. Any agreement reached can be formalised as a consent order — a court order made by consent, with the same legal force as one made after a contested hearing.

  3. Court proceedings

    Where the client wishes to proceed by way of contested court proceedings — typically because agreement has not been reached, or because the matter is urgent (for example, an application for an interim order in childcare or guardianship proceedings) — we issue the necessary applications, gather evidence, and act for the client at all hearings, including in the Circuit Family Court or High Court.

  4. Orders and follow-up

    Once a court order or consent order is in place, we explain its terms and advise on compliance. We remain available to assist if questions arise about implementation, or if circumstances change — for example, where a maintenance variation, a guardianship application, or a contempt application becomes necessary later.

Common Questions

What clients ask us most

We understand that legal matters can feel daunting. Here are the questions we hear most often — answered plainly.

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Mary Molloy, Principal Solicitor
Reviewed by Mary Molloy Principal Solicitor Admitted to the Roll of Solicitors 1980, Law Society of Ireland University College Dublin Last reviewed: May 2026